Forgiveness...
So often we hold on to the injustice of a situation to prove that it was wrong. We display the wrong doings as lessons for others to see or deem that thing/person punishable for their wrong doing. So we deepen our hold on the situation in hopes to be seen, heard, felt, known, and empathized with in our hurt.
When we allow anything outside ourself to dictate how and when we are whole, (embodied in the present moment), we are disempowered to that thing/person.
Forgiveness is the final reclamation or our soul's authority to be empowered to our authentic self. We allow truth of higher perspective to cultivate wisdom in our being, so that we may know exactly how and what we needed to be empowered and in full authority of our worth, value, and safety. Here we have a choice. Continue with wisdom and reclaim our full authority to move forward with our life, or remain connected to that person, time and space, waiting for that party to reconcile with you so you may feel valid, heard, and justified in your hurt and move on.
Allowing our empowerment to be hinged on someone else's cultivation of wisdom is an ego based Will exchange. We must not wait for someone else's timeline to be fully empowered in our own. It is in our highest good to dissolve these contracts with time, space, and others from our being that we may navigate our life now, in our full authority. Doing so in return allows that person to learn what it is like not to have that energetic feed to you... and compassionately move them towards their own self discovery of empowerment reconciliation.
Truth leads us to the higher perspective of wisdom. Where everything is accounted for in your experience. Validation and restoration of your authority is the map of forgiveness. Learning this internal process of validation and witness with the flow of compassion for yourself and by your higher power is the initial step to becoming wise and negating contracts of disempowerment in our lives. It is in your highest good to forgive. It is fundamental to your empowered journey.
Space holding this healing cycle is what I specialize in for trauma, and empowered practice. It is a journey to be held and witnessed through when moments have stripped us of our authority and birthright to be whole. But choice must be reclaimed in the flow of compassion. Love will reinstate your choice. Surround yourself with those that rejoice in your wholeness, are allies of your empowerment, and nurture your responsibility to choose to be whole.
All my love,
there's so much more,
~tara rae